CHERUBIM
ASSFEST S25 | RIM | 02.09.25 | A SPACE IN SYDNEY | GADIGAL LAND
Aimed at Consent Angels and Dungeon Monitors (and those who are wanting to learn), Trey Emery (Inanna Academy) presents a skill share and Q&A focusing on consent agent theory - including different models of consent agents in play spaces, strategies to engage with patrons, personal safety taking on the role of a consent agent, and what to look for while on duty. While this part of the event is mostly theory-based, we will also engage in practical exercises to encourage a broader understanding of the various talking points.
Some of the core concepts we will cover:
Definitions and terms of the event based consent advocate roles
Understanding approaches to evaluating and managing risk in a SOP and kink environment
Bystander effect
Affect - projecting a persona consistent with the event’s intention
Social capital
Types of power
Consequences and accountability for transgressions or mishaps
Effective incident reports and escalations
Responding to guests and incidents -trauma informed
Personal impact and Self-care in the role of a event based consent advocate
TREY EMERY
INANNA ACADEMY
Engaging, funny and relentlessly geeky. Trey Emery is a sex-nerd and professional consent advocate. Delightfully misusing her corporate consulting training and turning her degrees into pevertables, she is the founder of Inanna Academy; a social enterprise for the ethically non-monogamous and kink communities. She is passionate about empowering people to have positive sexual experiences, whether that is at a sex party with hundreds of guests or just between partners alone.
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