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THE MESSY EDGE OF EROTICISM

FOOD PLAY

ASSFEST M25 | IMMERSION | 18.05.25 | SECOND STORY STUDIOS | NAARM (MELBOURNE)

With our passion for food and sensory play, Violet and Nina bring you The Messy Edge of Erotism – Food Play Mess play can help us deepen our connection to pleasure by surrendering control, embracing spontaneity and revel in the primal and unexpected. Adding food to your scene can add an array of surprises, textures and added layers. To be messy pushes against deeply ingrained cultural norms around cleanliness, order, politeness and refinement. From a young age we are taught to avoid making a mess, to eat neatly and stay presentable. Mess play deliberately dismantles those rules, creating a space where pleasure and sensation take precedence over propriety. Join us for a sensory journey where we will help you expand your knowledge of what can be used and how. You will learn how to create a food play scene using common things found around the home, how to be creative and spontaneous incorporating food into your play.


THE MESSY EDGE OF EROTICISM

VIOLET MADDEN & NINA WILDE

VIOLET MADDEN

THE KINKY CHEF

A lover of indulgence, sensory play and erotic feasting. Curiosity and playfulness is her essence. ​She delights in food as an expression of play and sexuality and thrives off the connection food brings when people come together to eat and the moans and sounds of delight as they feast.



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NINA WILDE


With a background in culinary arts and a passion for sensory play, Nina Wilde has spent over a decade crafting immersive food experiences that weave taste, touch, art and ritual. Nina loves guiding people into deeper presence through food – whether through indulgence, sensory illusion, storytelling or the transformative power of shared experience.


Mess, however, is a new frontier. Sticky, gritty, and especially partially wet have never been Nina’s comfort zone. Yet, the fine line between grotesque and erotic oozes an irresistible nectar that Nina can't resist. She has found something exhilarating in surrendering to the chaos and pushing her own sensory edges. Mess play has challenged everything Nina thought she knew about pleasure, turn on, and connection – and she invites you to explore that delicious tension with her.



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We are committed to decolonisation, treaty and finding ways to move forward.

This business was founded and is primarily run by Arwen (Eve X), a queer, disabled and neurodivergent Celt X First Nations woman,

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