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A PANEL ON CONSENT

ASSFEST M25 | RIM | 16.05.25 | STUDIO TAKE CARE | NAARM (MELBOURNE)

Join us for a three hour consent panel featuring featuring Mistress Tokyo, Eve X, Trey Emery and Ami from Somatic Intimacy, exploring different approaches to working with consent. As well as hearing our panellists stories and perspectives, we'll be leaving ample space for all your questions! This panel is moderated by Sai Jaiden Lillith.


A PANEL ON CONSENT

MISTRESS TOKYO, EVE X, TREY EMERY & SOMATIC INTIMACY

MISTRESS TOKYO

MINDFUL CONSENT

Mistress Tokyo is a Dominatrix of 24yrs, based in Sydney. She is a queer, cisgender woman, her pronouns she/her/hers.  She is also a BDSM educator, aerial performer & undergraduate student of Psychology & Counselling. She recently started a new venture as The Consent Consultant, with her own consent training model, “Mindful Consent” - consent education synthesised from sex work & her study of psychology. 



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EVE X

AUSTRALIAN SCHOOL OF SEXUALITY & SACRED PRIMAL ARTS

Eve X is the founder of Sacred Primal Arts, The Australian School of Sexuality and Tantric Kink Australia (forthcoming). She first entered the sexuality industry almost twenty five years ago; since then she has worked in various aspects of the field.

 

Eve is best known for her provocative and profound erotic performance art with Sai Jaiden Lillith; they have been appearing regularly on stages in Melbourne and Sydney since 2019 as Infernal Desire Machine.

 

Eve has held over 60 sexuality education spaces since 2019.

She is a regular educational presenter with OzKinkFest and Sexpo / LoveX, and co-owner of Alter Space.

 

Eve’s work is deeply embodied; informed by queerness, neurodivergence and chronic illness. It is also deeply transpersonal; weaving politics, ecology and spirituality into the story of the body.



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TREY EMERY

INANNA ACADEMY

Engaging, funny and relentlessly geeky. Trey Emery is a sex-nerd and professional consent advocate. Delightfully misusing her corporate consulting training and turning her degrees into pevertables, she is the founder of Inanna Academy; a social enterprise for the ethically non-monogamous and kink communities. She is passionate about empowering people to have positive sexual experiences, whether that is at a sex party with hundreds of guests or just between partners alone.



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AMI

SOMATIC INTIMACY

Ami is a somatic sex & relationship coach, massage therapist, dance teacher & tantric bodyworker that is studying with the School of Consent to become a certified Wheel of Consent teacher. With over 20 years of experience in teaching, coaching, and holding workshops in different settings and contents. She is now focusing on connection, consent, non-verbal communication, pleasure, and understanding the human body and nervous system.


She is originally from Sweden where she got her massage therapist and chemical engineering degree and then pivoted into the European sex-positive space over 7 years ago. With training and facilitating in Europe, Thailand, the US, and Australia.



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SAI JAIDEN LILLITH

AUSTRALIAN SCHOOL OF SEXUALITY & SACRED PRIMAL ARTS


Sai Jaiden Lillith is a Melbourne based gender fluid prodom/me, escort, activist, educator, creator of visual erotica, artist, event organiser and Shibari witch.


Sai has taught workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo / LoveX, sex worker groups and trained numerous private students including a number of professional peers through their own unique brand of individualised and transformative frameworks.


Neurodivergent and in possession of the letters BPD, ADHD & CPTSD, they are a fierce advocate for accessible spaces and ethical practices, authentic connections and fully committed to unflinchingly facing up to and harnessing the shadows within oneself. Sai’s philosophy is to live a life consciously created, relentless interrogated and framed by love.


Known for their gorgeous and connective rope work, intense performances, and creativity across their modalities, they approach all they do with deep reflection and commitment.


Sai performs rituals in ropes with Eve X in Infernal Desire Machine, teaches as a co-founding member of Sacred Primal Arts, is the vocalist in the industrial / Gothic band ZCluster where they can be often found singing in full Shibari suspension bondage, runs the production company The Soft Machine that puts on live music / BDSM / erotic circus events such as Sex Ropes and Rock and Roll & Flesh Rituals & Siren Songs, produces and stars in visual erotica through Canto V Films, runs public rituals through The Coven, is the 2IC for the Australian School of Sexuality and last but not least wrangles a toddler with Eve X



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We live, work and play across the lands of *Australia*. Sovereignty was never ceded.

We are committed to decolonisation, treaty and finding ways to move forward.

This business was founded and is primarily run by Arwen (Eve X), a queer, disabled and neurodivergent Celt X First Nations woman,

with the pivotal support of ASS 2IC and life partner Sai Jaiden Lillith, and a wonderful community of friends & volunteers.

A NEW EDEN PROJECT | c @ VESSEL ARTS 2025 | PRIVACY & CONDUCT

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