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GENEROUS BODY

EASE & INTEGRITY WITH GIVING & RECEIVING

ASSFEST S25 | 07.09.25 | A SPACE IN SYDNEY


When you bring your desires forward, and respect the limits of your giver, you can be more fully in the deliciousness of receiving.

When you set aside what you want so you can give to someone else,

and you keep within your own limits, you can give with more ease and generosity.

This workshop introduces some practices of the Wheel of Consent® to experiment with how it feels in your body to;

  • ask for what you want, and know when it’s for you

  • give with willingness and generosity, and know when it’s for them

  • set a limit for yourself, and respect another person’s limit

  • say or hear a no, say or hear a yes; and

  • make clear and fabulous agreements.

You are welcome whether new to the Wheel, or have familiarity.

Some practices involve the option of touch; but touch is not required - you choose at every step.

Open to all bodies!

To experience the full spectrum of our sexuality, we have to be able to take action for our own pleasure, and take action for the other person's pleasure - and we have to know the difference. ~ Betty Martin

STELLA TOPAZ

ABUNDANT BODY

I’m a Wheel of Consent® facilitator, a sexological bodyworker, and a sex and body educator. I see people online and in-person, hold workshops, some queer-only, and co-work with other practitioners. As a registered nurse for 40 years, I worked predominantly in sexual health, HIV, and LGBTIQ health.


I’m a queer, white-bodied older femme, loving on cultures of care, intergenerational queer kinships, and embodied consent. Radically clear agreement-making is hot; in sex, play, kink and community making, and in everyday relating.


I love how our bodies hold wisdom and how pleasure can heal. I live on beautiful Dharawal Country, NSW.



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We live, work and play across the lands of *Australia*. Sovereignty was never ceded.

We are committed to decolonisation, treaty and finding ways to move forward.

This business was founded and is primarily run by Arwen (Eve X), a queer, disabled and neurodivergent Celt X First Nations woman,

with the pivotal support of ASS 2IC and life partner Sai Jaiden Lillith, and a wonderful community of friends & volunteers.

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