TEA & CHATS: ON CONSENT
ASSFEST S25 | RIM | 30.08.25 | A SPACE IN SYDNEY | GADIGAL LAND
Join two of Australia's leading consent experts for an intimate chat about all things consent!
Stella Topaz is one's of Australia's leading Wheel of Consent educators, regularly running professional training programs for all bodies as well as pioneering the use of the wheel for queer identities and communities.
Mistress Tokyo is the creatrix of the Mindful Consent Model, a powerful embodied approach to consent deeply informed by her psychological studies and years of professional domination / sexwork.
As well as sharing their own stories and philosophies, they'll be answering all your curious questions in a gentle and supportive enquiring environment.
MISTRESS TOKYO & STELLA TOPAZ
MISTRESS TOKYO
Mistress Tokyo is a Dominatrix of 24yrs, based in Sydney. She is a queer, cisgender woman, her pronouns she/her/hers. She is also a BDSM educator, aerial performer & undergraduate student of Psychology & Counselling. She recently started a new venture as The Consent Consultant, with her own consent training model, “Mindful Consent” - consent education synthesised from sex work & her study of psychology.
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STELLA TOPAZ
I’m a Wheel of Consent® facilitator, a sexological bodyworker, and a sex and body educator. I see people online and in-person, hold workshops, some queer-only, and co-work with other practitioners. As a registered nurse for 40 years, I worked predominantly in sexual health, HIV, and LGBTIQ health.
I’m a queer, white-bodied older femme, loving on cultures of care, intergenerational queer kinships, and embodied consent. Radically clear agreement-making is hot; in sex, play, kink and community making, and in everyday relating.
I love how our bodies hold wisdom and how pleasure can heal. I live on beautiful Dharawal Country, NSW.
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