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THE EROTIC MOTHER

ASSFEST S25 | RIM | 04.09.25 | A SPACE IN SYDNEY | GADIGAL LAND

Reclaiming your sexual self in Modern Motherhood.


Motherhood can feel like the end of our erotic selves, but I see it as the ultimate invitation to reclaim, re-shape and deepen our relationship to one of the most ancient parts of our humanity.

Somewhere between the sleepless nights, the school drop-offs, and the never-ending to-do lists, many mothers feel like their sensuality has been buried under a weight of responsibility and the mental load of modern life! – and in some ways it's true!


It’s no secret that the passion, the pleasure, the aliveness can feel hard to find during the bustle of daily life.


So, more importantly I ask the question - how do we get it back? Remember what's been forgotten, reclaim what's been,


This 2hr workshop is a gentle call to wake up the part of you that still aches to feel deeply, to move with desire, to let Eros lead—not just in the bedroom, but in the way we breathe, parent, love, and exist in your own skin.


Eros isn’t just about sex. It’s life force, creativity, vitality. It’s the hum of aliveness that makes you more present, more magnetic, and more deeply connected to yourself and those you love.

When you have greater access to your erotic current, stress decreases, libido rises naturally, and the mundane moments of motherhood begin to feel infused with something richer, something deeper, something uniquely yours.


In this workshop, we’ll explore:

🔥 How to reconnect with your sensual body after years of putting others first

🔥 The link between Eros and stress relief (yes, pleasure can be an antidote to stress)

🔥 How to convene with your erotic self in everyday life—not just in the bedroom

🔥 Practical tools for increasing libido and feeling more at home in your erotic body

🔥 The revolutionary act of allowing pleasure into your life as a mother


This is not about performing, tolerating, pushing or forcing.


It’s a gentle turn towards that part of you that longs to be seen, integrated, held and uplifted. The part of you who knows that the erotic is power and your body’s wisdom holds the keys you’ve likely been searching for.


Are you ready to meet her and have some fun at the same time?

TAMICA WILDER

Tamica Wilder is a Byron-based somatic sexologist, multi-qualified therapist, author, and speaker with over 20 years of experience in transformational facilitation and group work.


Her approach combines compassion, embodied wisdom, and a deep understanding of human sexuality, making her a highly sought-after facilitator in both private and group settings.


Tamica's purpose is to challenge and transform prevailing cultural narratives about sex, intimacy, and pleasure, advocating for our truly liberated self in all aspects of live, love, community, body and beyond.



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We live, work and play across the lands of *Australia*. Sovereignty was never ceded.

We are committed to decolonisation, treaty and finding ways to move forward.

This business was founded and is primarily run by Arwen (Eve X), a queer, disabled and neurodivergent Celt X First Nations woman,

with the pivotal support of ASS 2IC and life partner Sai Jaiden Lillith, and a wonderful community of friends & volunteers.

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